Flawless facades

Have you ever sat in a group of friends, colleagues or even strangers and just wondered to yourself. “This is such an odd pairing, I wonder what keeps them together, are they satisfied with their needs met by each other or fulfilled by this relationship?” This got my brain going in overdrive trying to think of parties/gatherings or anywhere when I could remember myself wondering about this. And there’s almost always this fleeting moment that piques my interest about the pair in that group, but then I’m distracted by something else and the interest fades.  Until recently, when this topic was brought up by a friend, I hadn’t realized I was doing it. Essentially, I was judging people in the blink of an eye and just swiftly moving on with my life.  But thinking back to every memory with this type of scenario, I noticed different facades people portray as their true self.  Its been over a week since the conversation and after observing different relationships, the result is bo...